Maxxing Out

Most of us are Ferraris. You’re a top performer. Maybe you forgot…how to shift out of 3rd gear and take yourself where you REALLY want to be.

You have a current state of mind and beliefs: about what’s possible for you. About who you are. About what you want and need.  These beliefs have MAJOR IMPACT on what you decide to do – and not do.  And every…single….one of those decisions…formed the bricks in the foundation and walls of what is now your entire LIFE.

 

But sometimes your beliefs aren’t really the TRUTH…if you believe you’re limited, stuck, helpless, your hands are tied, too poor, not enough education, not enough support, don’t feel good about yourself…is the truth of you?

You’re an expert on WHAT your heart wants and on what WOULD make you feel fulfilled and happy…and coaching fundamentals subscribe to the theory that you already know exactly what to do to accomplish those things.

So…if you don’t like where you’re at right now, don’t despair.  Maybe you feel like you’re “stuck” or like you got off on the “wrong exit ramp of life”?  With the help of a coach, you can look at — and then beyond — your current state of mind.  You can explore other beliefs.

Changing your perspective can be radical.

Your coach might ask yourself:

Is there a different way of looking at this? 

What if you didn’t believe that? 

What would happen if you saw, thought, or believed differently?

Coaching can begin with possibility and exploration.  Coaching can be a unique experience, as you begin to quiet the other influences and recognize what YOU want.

Coaching can also be an incredible opportunity to have freedom and space and creativity to envision and design a life or a career or relationships around what is deeply important to you.  Have you stopped believing that you can have certain things?  Have you given up on a dream that seems too distant or impossible?  Not only have I seen some amazing dreams come true – even when people thought that it could “never happen,” but rest assured that these people are truly no different from you and me…they just sought the structure and support to actually ACHIEVE

What is it all about…for YOU?

Maybe it’s a dream of living in another country…

Getting in the best shape of your life…

Taking your marriage to a whole new level.  Or recovering from divorce with lifted spirits…

Setting boundaries with intrusive obligations and people. And feeling FINE about it!

Eliminating toxic influences, situations, and people from your world – with a smile!

Exceeding your work performance targets and getting that promotion you desire…

Finding a life partner…someone incredible to share an adventurous – or cozy, quiet – life with…

Financing your life so that money serves YOU (not the other way around)…

Learning to speak another language and traveling to use that new skill…

Setting up a family routine that works for everyone, where nobody is burned out…

Reducing your stress and anxiety about work, health, money, and relationships…

Caring for an aging or sick loved one and still having energy & time for yourself…

Earning the highest grades you’ve ever achieved or moving up a level in education…

Dealing firmly and compassionately with unpleasant coworkers, neighbors, or family members…

Being recognized for excellent communication and teamwork at your workplace…

Figuring out time management so you can enjoy your LIFE!!

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I already believe 100% without a doubt that YOU are the expert on yourself…you know what is absolutely right for you.  Coaching is not about advice.  We brainstorm solutions, set action plans in place, remove all kinds of mental barriers and external obstacles…without baggage and distress and fears to weigh you down, you can begin those action steps…and you will be amazed at what happens in the coaching process.

I will remind you that you have wings.

You will go to the edge and be very confident on that edge.

The air current will catch you.

You will fly — high.

You will enjoy the views (and you can happily report back to me what your views look like!).

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